I am lucky. My father survived a tour in Vietnam as an Army recruit and three tours in the Gulf War as a government contractor.

The particular culture of military children was documented in the movie "BRATS: Our Journey Home". I would recommend it for teens and older, as it touches on some of the darker aspects of military life on base. I cried a bit while watching, nodding my head every few minutes as common BRAT memories were displayed and explained on the screen.
Getting back to books for BRATs--in my search for such books, I came across this project shared by a fellow librarian Jan Pye Marry. It's been updated as of 2014, and I know we have a few of the books she mentions on our own shelves in my school library. Thanks, Ms. Marry, for finding books for such a special group of children.
It's Monday, and this Memorial Day, let's think of the kids of the fallen, too. They've served our country in their own way.